The Stillhouse
Welcome to The Stillhouse — a quiet place to explore truth, self-mastery, and radical freedom through writing and reflection.
This space has been a long time coming. I had to work through a lot of “supposed to” to create it.
The Stillhouse is not about algorithms or virality. It’s not about sales funnels, lead magnets, or pressure to buy. It’s a place for real conversations and lived truth. I’m not here to teach or lead. I’m here to live what’s true and let the living speak for itself.
Here, I don’t prescribe anything. I don’t tell you what you should believe, how you should heal, or what path you should follow. I simply share what I’ve lived, what I’ve learned, and what I continue to wrestle with. If it resonates, great. If it doesn’t, that’s okay too.
You won’t find prescriptions here. No rules about what you should believe, how you should heal, or what path you should follow. Just writing, reflection, and the small architectures of release — essays, verses, and quiet experiments in freedom.
Some pieces are freely open; others ask for contribution. But everything here is an invitation, never a demand.
This is my version of a stillhouse — a place that distills pressure into peace. Simple, steady, and real.
So settle in. Breathe. Take what resonates and leave what doesn’t. You’re welcome here exactly as you are.
I’m glad you’re here.
Love to all,
Della
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Featured Articles
The Philosophy of Integration
1. The Premise: Fragmentation as the Human Condition Humanity has been taught to divide itself — mind from body, logic from emotion, spirit from form, self from system. Every system we’ve built (religious, political, educational, even therapeutic) reflects this split — trying to correct or control parts of ourselves instead of integrating them into who we are and how we
Systemic Release
Systems exist because we agree to them. They wouldn’t exist without people, because they aren’t part of the natural rhythm of the Universe. Systems are how humans organize themselves around agreed-upon ideas. They facilitate resource distribution and create structure—all the things people need to feel comfortable and safe in their lives. Somewhere along the way, people were taught to take
Truth, Responsibility, Acceptance, Freedom—Why These Four?
Truth, responsibility, acceptance, and freedom are powerful words. If you understand what they mean and how to use them to heal yourself, they can change not only your life but also the trajectory of society itself. What is Truth?Truth is not human rules. It is not the story you tell of blame, shame, guilt, or victimization. It is not morality