Watch the full recording of my “Live Conversations with Della.”
Control promises safety — but only by keeping you in a loop of expectation.
In this 60-minute Stillhouse conversation, Della explores how the human need for predictability creates suffering. She unpacks why we try to manage experiences instead of managing ourselves, how pain becomes a collection of “souvenirs,” and why expectation — not experience — is the real source of frustration.

Through story and reflection, she reveals how to release the illusion of control without losing your sense of agency. You’ll learn what self-mastery actually means, why empathy doesn’t require regulation, and how to find authentic truth under the noise of shoulds and supposed-tos.

This conversation invites you to let life be what it is — and trust yourself to meet it with awareness, honesty, and grace.

When you take this home, you’ll receive a PDF with the private YouTube link. You have three chances to download the file safely; if you run into any issues, just reach out and I’ll send the link directly.